We had to come to it some day. Dave and I met only when kids were not around. It was getting more difficult as we both were coming to realization that it was not temporary fling. Not that we thought that in the beginning but time was just proving it.
It came to the time me explain to the kids so they could meet Dave. It was after Thanksgiving. When I put Kyra to bed one night I told her that I was seeing someone and if she would like to hear about him. (She did). I told her in a few words and told her basically for her it would mean another playmate to play with. She could NOT wait to meet him.
Brandon, on another hand, did not want to hear anything. Knowing what I know now, I am not sure if he would have been ever ready. Is it him being a boy? Not being able and not wanting to see his Mom with another man who was not his dad? May be.
The first time we had a chance for Kyra to meet Dave was on the day Kyra had her surgery. Brandon went to his Non's and it looked like perfect opportunity to do so.
Kyra seemed to take to Dave right away. She is easy to talk to and Dave seemed to connect with her on her level. So far everything with her was good.
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